TASK 2 - DOUBLE QUESTION
Some parents buy their children whatever they want and let them do whatever they want.
Is this a good way to raise children?
What are the possible consequences of this trend?
It is undeniable that every single child ought to be entitled to a carefree childhood. And some parents are committed to fulfilling this by purchasing whatever they want and being less strict. While I believe this is a good approach because of its positive effect on parent-child relationship, this trend may leave a stain on children’s personality.
It has been suggested that this rather noble gesture by parents helps them have a strong bonding with their offspring. In other words, parents showing unconditional love and care makes children feel they are always loved and supported, which is why they will be more likely to feel closer and be more transparent with their seniors, as they know they always can rely on them without any judgements. Case in point, children raised by such parents will surely want to return the favour whenever they can, ergo do their best to make their parents proud.
On the flip side, many others have claimed that such spoiled kids may develop bad habits, not suitable in the real world when they grow older. It is common knowledge that a child, that is used to getting whatever he wants, may grow a conscience that will always make it difficult for him to find his place in the real world due to the fact that being ignored, or having to work to earn something has never been the case for him. For instance, this is especially true with only children, who did not have to fight for anything and got whatever they wanted and they struggle to adjust to the world outside their bubble as a result.
In conclusion, it is safe to assume that creating a wonderful childhood by catering to their needs at all times offers a unique chance to have a close-knit relationship with their children, which will also be of great importance in the long run, whereas they should steer a balance between being a good and strict parent unless they want their kids to suffer as adults when they find out they do not always get what they want.
Some parents buy their children whatever they want and let them do whatever they want.
Is this a good way to raise children?
What are the possible consequences of this trend?
It is undeniable that every single child ought to be entitled to a carefree childhood. And some parents are committed to fulfilling this by purchasing whatever they want and being less strict. While I believe this is a good approach because of its positive effect on parent-child relationship, this trend may leave a stain on children’s personality.
It has been suggested that this rather noble gesture by parents helps them have a strong bonding with their offspring. In other words, parents showing unconditional love and care makes children feel they are always loved and supported, which is why they will be more likely to feel closer and be more transparent with their seniors, as they know they always can rely on them without any judgements. Case in point, children raised by such parents will surely want to return the favour whenever they can, ergo do their best to make their parents proud.
On the flip side, many others have claimed that such spoiled kids may develop bad habits, not suitable in the real world when they grow older. It is common knowledge that a child, that is used to getting whatever he wants, may grow a conscience that will always make it difficult for him to find his place in the real world due to the fact that being ignored, or having to work to earn something has never been the case for him. For instance, this is especially true with only children, who did not have to fight for anything and got whatever they wanted and they struggle to adjust to the world outside their bubble as a result.
In conclusion, it is safe to assume that creating a wonderful childhood by catering to their needs at all times offers a unique chance to have a close-knit relationship with their children, which will also be of great importance in the long run, whereas they should steer a balance between being a good and strict parent unless they want their kids to suffer as adults when they find out they do not always get what they want.