Muhammadyusuf’s Blog

Har qanday yolg'on ertami-kechmi yuzaga chiqadi.
Bu haqiqat—barcha insoniy munosabatlarning zamirida yotadi. Tijorat, tashqi yoki ichki aloqalar, shaxsiy munosabatlar–agar yolgʻonga asoslangan boʻlsa, uzoq davom eta olmaydi, aksincha haqiqatga qurilgan bo'lsa, ularning muddati cheksizdir.
Har bir ishda, garchi bu ish ahamiyatsiz tuyulsada, haqiqatni gapirishni o'z zimmangizga oling.
Oʻzingizda, rostgo'ylik odatini shakllantirasiz.
Yolgʻonni farqlay olasiz.

Yolgʻon–insonlarga xos boʻlgan har turdagi his tuygʻularning falokati deb hisoblayman.
Kun kelib, hammaga oshkor boʻladigan sharmandali yolgʻondan koʻra, oqibati oʻtkir va aniq boʻlgan haqiqat ustun ekanini oʻzingiz ham tushunib olasiz.

Rishta bu — tilsiz bir til, so‘zsiz bir so‘z. Unda nafaqat muhabbat, balki ishonch, sabr va kechirim yashaydi. Bu uch asosiy toshsiz, har qanday rishta inqirozga yuz tutadi.

Dunyodagi eng buyuk boylik bu insoniy rishtadir. Pul, shon-shuhrat va dunyo boyliklari o‘tkinchi, lekin chin do‘stlik va sevgi rishtalari abadiy hayotning ko‘zgusi.

Rishta haqida sen o‘ylagan sari, u yanada murakkab va sirli bo‘lib ko‘rinadi. Balki, bu rishtaning haqiqatini tushunish uchun uni his qilish, boshdan kechirish va qadrlash kerakdir

Kim shaxmat O`ynashni biladi ?

Well you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
Staring at the bottom of your glass
Hoping one day you'll make a dream last
But dreams come slow and they go so fast
You see her when you close your eyes
Maybe one day you'll understand why
Everything you touch surely dies
But you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
Staring at the ceiling in the dark
Same old empty feeling in your heart
'Cause love comes slow and it goes so fast
Well you see her when you fall asleep
But never to touch and never to keep
'Cause you loved her too much and you dive too deep
Well you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
Oh oh oh no
And you let her go
Oh oh oh no
Well you let her go
'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go

Bir ajoyib she’r

Mayli-da kimgadir yoqsa, yoqmasa, Ularga qo‘shilib yig‘lasharmidik.
Biz baxtli bo‘lamiz, Xudo xohlasa. Xudo xohlamasa, Uchrasharmidik...  

Rayhon hidlaringni yo‘llarimga sep, Kut meni har oqshom ko‘kka oy chiqqan. Faqat yig‘lamagin, aybim nima deb, Aybing — onang seni chiroyli tuqqan!..  

Menga bir tabassum hadya et, ey yor, nur tomsin lablaring sohillaridan.
O‘zing ayt, senday qiz yana qayda bor, Kipriklari uzun kokillaridan?..  
Iymanib yashama xayol pinjida, Yoyil, yayra, jonim,  o’rtanma g‘amda.

G‘iybatlarga chida, Tuhmatga chida: Sen bittasan, axir, Yorug‘ olamda.
Men esa oshig‘ing sening eng g‘arib, Tundan so‘z qarz olib, tongga tutguvchi.

Sening yoningda ham seni axtarib, Sening yoningda ham Seni kutguvchi. Ista tiz cho‘kaman hozir oldingda, Sevdim, sevganimdan uyalmoq nechun?

Barcha farishtalar sening qalbingda, Ijarada turgan qizlar men uchun!.. Biz baxtli bo‘lamiz, Xudo xohlasa. Xudo xohlamasa, Uchrasharmidik.

Mendan nima qolar ikki misra sheʼr, ikki sandiq kitob bir uyum tuproq, odamlar ortimdan nima desa der, men seni öylayman özimdan köproq Lola lolajonim lola qizğaldoq..


Muhammadyusuf

Men shu o'rinda shu yozmoqchimanki men bu postlarni ozimni korsatish uchun yozmayman. Oqigan narsamni mustahkamalsh uchun qilyabman.

Eni qanday yangi kitob oqishni boshlasam shunday postlar joylashda davom etaman. Rahmat hammaga

Xuddi shu kabi, ko'nikmalarda ham kuchli tortishish kuchi mavjud.Muhim ishlarni ortga surish,sabrsizlik, hamma narsaga tanqidiy ruhda qarash yoki xudbinlik singari inson samaradorligiga salbiy ta'sir qiluvchi ko'nikmalarni yengish oson emas. Buni uddalash uchun, shunchaki istak va hayotimizda bir necha mayda o'zgarishlarni amalga oshirish yetarli bo'lmaydi. "Ko'tarilish" juda ulkan jonbozlik talab etadi. Lekin tortishish kuchini yengib o'tgach, ozodligimiz butunlay o'zgacha ko'rinish oladi

"Apollon 11" ning sayohatiga guvoh bo'lganlar insoniyatning Oyga qadam qo'yib, so'ng Yerga qaytib kelishini ko'rganlarida hayratdan yoqa ushlagandi. "Aql bovar qilmas" , " O'ta hayratlanarli" kabi orttirma sifatlar ham o'sha voqeani tasvirlash uchun ojiz edi. Lekin Oyga yetib borish uchun fazogirlar Yerning tortishish kuchini yorib o'tishga to'g'ri kelgan. Safarning dastlabki daqiqalarida Yerdan ko'tarilish, so'ngra ilk kilometrlarini bosib o'tish uchun ishlangan quvvat kelgusi million kilometr masofaga uchishga sarf etilgan quvvat miqdoridan ko'proq edi.

Buyuk pedagok Xoreys Mann aytganidek,

" Odatlar arqonga o'xshaydi.Biz buni xar kuni bir toladan eshamiz.Tez orada arqonni uzib bo'lmay qoladi"

.Shaxsan men bu yuqoridagi jumlalarning so'ngi qismiga qo'shilmayman chunki. Chunki har qanday "arqon" ni uzish mumkin. Ko'nikmalarni nafaqat orttirish , balki ulardan voz kechish mumkin. Ko'nikmalardan viz kechish diqqat-e'tibor talab etuvchi uzoq muddatli jarayondir.

Ko'nikmalar- hayotimizda qudratli kuchga ega omillardir. Ular izchil, ko'pincha anglamagan shaklda bo'lgani tufayli, to'xtovsiz ravishda bizning fel-atvorimizni iroda etadi va samaradorlik yoki samarasizlik darajasini belgilab beradi.

Odamlar kimligimizni ko`rasatadi.Shunday ekan , komillik xarakatda emas balki ko'nikmadadir

Aristotel

Fel-atvorimiz asosan ko'nikmalarimiz jamlanmasidir. "Fikr urugini eksangiz, xarakat yetishtirasiz; xarakat uruguni ekib , konikma xosilini olasiz ; ko'nikma uruginidan fel-atvor unib chiqadi; fel-atvorni ekkanda esa , butun taqdiringiz yaraladi". Tamoyil shu tarzda davom etaveradi

"Biz muammolarni ularni yaratgan vaqtimizdagi fikrlash darajamiz bilan hal qila olmaymiz"

ALBERT ENSHTEYIN

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Kitob

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