Sherzod Barakayev

This is dedicated to all of you, including me, struggling with what you are doing, you have to realize one thing that now is not forever, the thing you are doing right now doesn't have to be forever, yeah if you are having difficulty to adjust your new regime it is not forever, or if you are preparing for an exam and lacking sleep, it is not forever, if you are struggling with any aspect in your academic or physical life, dedicate the next year or years to that thing, this is not the rest of your life, and after that you could go back to where you wanted to

so the lesson here is

now is not forever.

It is the most important part. You put all the necessary hours even more to be different from everyone.

The input source

Everyone must/have to listen to this message, this is a Guy who has got overall nine with speaking nine, and close the topic "how can i improve my speaking"

Change happens when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of making a change

Someone in YouTube

Tasavvur qiling men 19, 20 yoki 22 yoshga qaytib qoldim.

O’zbekistondaman. Ingliz tili bilaman. Oz-moz IT ham bilaman. Ishim bor va 400-500$ pul topaman.

Hayotim keyingi bir yilini qanday o’tkazgan bo’lar edim?

Bu haqida ba’zan o’ylab qolaman. Menimcha eng to’g’ri qaror backpacking bo’lar edi.

Backpacking bu kundalik yashash uchun minimal narsalarni ryukzakka solib, o’ta arzon yo’l bilan sayohat qilish. Unda hotelda emas hostelda turiladi. Hostel bu bitta xonada 4, 6, 8 ta o’rin bo’lgan uxlash uchun arzon yotoqxonalar. Sayohat arzon bo’lishi uchun restoranda emas ko’chadagi arzon yoki tekin joylarda ovqat yeyiladi. Shahar aylanishni taksida emas, balki piyoda, juda bo’lsa arzon avtobusda qilinadi.

Men quyidagi yo’lni tutgan bo’lar edim:

1. Backpacking uchun manzil belgilar edim. Misol India-Nepal-Burma-Laos-Kambodja yoki shunga o’xshash

2. U davlatlarda komfort backpacking uchun tahminiy byudjet kuniga 25-40$, 60 kunga 2400$. Bilet 500$. Umumiy byudjet 3000$ deylik ana

3. Shuni topish kerak endi. Bu uchun kundalik harajatlarni maksimal kamaytirib, daromadni oshirib bir amallab 3000 to’plar edim

4. Pul to’plash jarayonida Janubiy-Sharqiy Osiyoda backpacking qiluvchilar facebookdagi guruhlar, Reddit, turli forumlarni o’rganib, taxminiy marshrut tuzgan bo’lar edim. Boshqalar tajribasini o’rganar edim

5. Faslga moslab, ishxonam bilan kelishib bir tomonga bilet olib shartta ketgan bo’lar edim. Ishxonam rozi bo’lmasa ham ishdan shunday voz kechib ketgan bo’lar edim. Sababi bugun 20 yoshda 500 topa olyapmanmi, 2 oy sayohatdan keyin ham kamida shuni topa olaman. Topa olmagan taqdirimda ham rizq borasida qo’rquvim yo’q. Tavakkal!

6. Sayohat davomida turistlar boradigan maskanlarga emas, balki mahalliy aholi to’planadigan joylarga borar edim. Maksimal darajada odamlar bilan suhbat qilgan bo’lar edim

7. Bir kundalik olib ko’rgan va his qilganlarimni, xulosalarimni yozib borar edim. Bu jarayonda ”men to’g’ri, boshqalar noto’g’ri” degan fikrdan yiroqlashgan holda yondashuv muhim bo’lar edi

8. Arzonroq kamera olib, yoki telefonga video va rasmlar olar edim

9. Olingan videolar yoki yozilgan kundalikni ijtimoiy tarmoqlarga vatanga qaytguncha qo’ymas edim

10. Sayohat davomida hostelda ko’rishgan yoki orttirgan har bir tanishim kontaktlarini olar edim. Instagram, Facebook, Whatsapp va hok, farqi yo’q.

Ikki oylik sayohatdan keyin vatanga qaytganda bir narsa insonni hayron qoldiradi.

Hamma narsa o’sha-o’sha. Ishxona ham, uy ham, odamlar, ko’chalar va hok. Hech narsa o’zgarmagandek.

Ammo ikki oylik sayohat davomida 99,9999% odamlar 20 yilda ham olmaydigan hayotiy tajriba va hissiyotlarga to’la bo’lgan, ancha yetuk, musofirlikni ko’rgan yangi inson sifatida qaytishim kafolatlangan bo’lar edi.

Qo’rqmaysizmi degan savol bo’lishi tabiiy.

Dunyo xavfli emas. Biz o’zimiz ko’rmagan dunyo haqidagi fikrlarimiz odatda noto’g’ri bo’lib chiqadi.

20 yoshlardagi arzon byudjet bilan sayohat qilish orqali olinadigan hayotiy tajribani beradigan hech narsa yo’qdek fikrimcha.

Buni 40 yoshga kirib tushunasan, agar tushunsang!

Bek Olimjon
17.05.24
Norvegiya

This is how most teenagers are spending their most precious thing which is time. I feel sorry for them.