Tahlil sahifasi

Global fikrlash

Ingliz tilining foydalaridan biri global fikrlashdir.

Bu dunyo tajribasini teran o'rganish imkonini beradi.
Fikrlarimiz sehrli emasligi, boshqalar shunday o'ylagani, oqibatlari qanday bo'lishini o'rganish noyob imkoniyat.

Masalan, ayolning emotsiyalarini nazorat qilishga urunish keyinchalik oilaning hissiy farovonligiga qanday ta'sir qilganini o'rganganim ilmiy asossiz yaxshi niyatli xulosalarimizning oqibatlari yomon bo'lishini o'rgatdi.

Muloqot sevgini oshirishi yo sevgi muloqotni oshirishi haqida (tovuq oldinmi yo tuxum) sabab-oqibat tahlili muammoning ildizlarini o'rganish muhimligini o'rgatdi.

Vetnamda o'g'il ko'rmagani sabab ajrashgani har neni mentalitet bilan bog'lamaslik kerakligini o'rgatdi.

Bilaman, hammaga psixologiyani o'rgatish imkoni yo'q. Buni tanqid ostiga olish o'rniga tadbirkor sifatida yondashgan bo'lardim: taklif - konsuling xizmati.

Biroq bizda fikrlarimizni savol ostiga olish imkoni bor!

📚 "Sevgi algoritmi" kitobi

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Yangi yilingiz bilan!

O'tgan yilgi o'zim axmoq ko'rinyapti.

O'zgarishga sabab bo'lgan manbalarni ulashishga qaror qildim. Mandan sizga yangi yil sovg'asi bo'laqolsin.

Bu yil iqtisodiy bilimlarimni o'stirdim - Uzbekonomics.
Harvard University professori Botir Qobilov va New York University professori Bekzod Hoshimov olib boradilar.
Pul qanday ishlashi haqida - Yaqinda kasod bo'lasiz

Ko'pchilik maqsadlari orasida ingliz tilini o'rganishni kiritadi. Chet tillari uchun ilova - Ibrat academy

Kunlik mutolaa va podcast eshitish odatini unutmang.
(Shaxsiy kutubxona va you tube podcast kanali)

Odat shakllantirish uchun - Huberman lab podcast
(Tibbiyotda o'qishim tushunishda yordam berdi)

Desertga qanday boyish va falsafa kursi videolari.

Agar postni sizga yuborayotgan bo'lsam, o'sishingizga befarq emasman. Yo atrofdan nolish bilan 2025 ni ham o'tkazib yuboramiz, yo mas'uliyat olib o'zimizga, oilamizga va farzandlarimizga yordam beramiz.

Shunga qadam qo'yolsak 2025-yil bekor o'tmabdi

@Tahlil_sahifasi

Bekorga o'tishi mumkin edi

Bu klub tashkilotchilari yomon ishlayapti.

Manga foyda bermadi. Foydali qilib o'zgartirish kerak.

Qiziq, u o'zi o'zgarishi kerakligini tushunmayapti.

Istalgan foyda kimdurning vaqti va mehnati evaziga kelsachi? Oldin foyda berish haqida o'ylash kerakdir?

Kimga? O'ziga. Ilm olishni hohlaydigan, lekin diqqat qilolmaydigan o'ziga. Solih(a) juft xohlaydigan, o'zi hali solih(a) bo'lib ulgurmagan o'ziga. Nomunosib o'ziga.

Munosib bo'lganida atrofdan nolimayotgan bo'lardiku?

U xohlagan insonlar ham shundayini xohlashini bilardiku? Hozirgi hayot eski o'zimiz sovg'asi ekanligini,
Yangi hayot esa yangi o'zimizni talab qilishini bilardiku?

Botga bittasi yozibdi: Endi tushundim. O'zgarishim kerak ekan. Yilni bekorga o'tkazib yuboribman.

- 30 yil bekorga o'tishi ham mumkin edi

@Tahlil_sahifasi

Avoid These Mistakes in 2025
(Second part)

Today, we will discuss lateness and misinformation.

After analyzing group of people who tend to late, I realized there is a clear relationship between study efficiency and arriving to lessons on time. In order to be punctual, there are several key skills required, such as time management, planning, and getting things done on time. For example, whenever I couldn’t make it to class on time, I experienced a lot of stress and anxiety. Any excessive stress makes it easier to get distracted.

Now, let's talk about misinformation. It's not just a problem on social media or websites—many people also consider books to be the most reliable sources of information. It's crucial nowadays to develop critical thinking ability, like questioning the info we encounter.

• What is the best context for it?
• Why is it described that way?
• What if the opposite version is true?

I hope this article has been useful for you. By adopting this, may you experience improvements in your life.

❤️ Thanks to all of you for supporting me!

@Tahlil_sahifasi

Stress is often the cause of fear.

To manage it effectively, I need to break my journey down into smaller steps, each of which contains daily tasks. Don't dwell on things beyond your control. Even a little bit of stress can be helpful in helping you stay focused and get things done more easily.

It's all part of the plan!

Best regards,
From myself to me

@Tahlil_sahifasi

Avoid these mistakes in 2025

Some people consider me as productive person. That’s not the case at all. But I have some suggestions about dealing with problems and boosting your productivity.

It is an article written by me to enhance my writing.
If it makes sense to you, I'm happy.

First of all, I want to mention that you shouldn’t get distracted. Learn to do nothing. Whenever I see people with free time, they usually reach for their phones – it's like they’re addicted to their phones. You should learn to listen to your inner voice. It holds all the solutions you need, guiding you on what to do, where to go, and so on. Don’t ignore your intuition, please. It will help you in the long term, I mean throughout your life journey.

The next step is overcome procrastination. Research shows that simply thinking about tasks is often much more difficult than actually starting. Your brain ends up wasting energy on the anticipation of the task instead of actually doing it. You can spend hours, days, or even years delaying what you need to do. It’s terrible, you know. Please, don’t put things off.

Thanks for reading. See you next time!

@Tahlil_sahifasi

Yo'lda davom et

Federer - dunyodagi eng zo'r tennischilardan biri.

O'yinlarining 80 % ni yutgan. Ochkoga chaqsa 54 %.
Top tennischilar uchun odatda 50 % bo'larkan.

Biz mag'lubiyatlarni ko'tarolmaymiz deyaptilar Bek Aka.
O'ylab ko'r. Erisholmagan natijang rostan kerakmi?

Balki undan olingan dars sanga yetarlidir...
Toplar yarmida yutqizgan joyda, bizga yo'l bo'lsin.

Balki mag'lubiyatlari ularni topga aylantirgandir?

Oyog'ingga tikan kirsa, uni olib tashla. Malham qo'y.

Va yo'lda davom et.

Tikanlar darajangni yuqoriga ko'taradi.

@Tahlil_sahifasi

Make a wise decision

I'm not the kind of person who comes from car washing

Recently, I have started to understand why my dad set that IELTS 8 band score for me. Honestly, he may have even said "Hey, Alyosh, you need to get a perfect band 9". Because I know the only way I can really progress is through intellectual work.

Whenever I don't have the patience to learn something new, I remind myself: Band 8 or car washing— make a wise decision. It's a proven technique and at the end of the day learning actually becomes much easier for me.

@Tahlil_sahifasi

Fe'llarni maqtang

O'rinli maqtov va tanqid foydali.

Odatda noto'g'ri munosabat bizni o'sishdan to'xtatadi.

Maqtov to'xtatishing sababi tug'ma sifatlarga e'tibor qilinadi. U muvaffaqiyatli - aqlli, tirishqoq, tashabbuskor. Tanqidlar ham asosan shaxsiyatga yo'nalgan.

Tadqiqot: Qobiliyat uchun maqtov eshitgan bolalar oson sinovlarni tanlagan. Harakatlar uchun maqtov eshitgan bolalar qiyin tanlovlar qilgan (Columbia University).

Qobiliyatlarni maqtamang, fe'llarni maqtang.

Axmoqsan emas, yetarlicha urunib ko'rmading deng.

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Sevgi haqida maqola yozsam - Alisher sevib qolibdi. Oila haqida maqola yozsam - uylanmoqchi ekan deb o'ylashadi. Ayollarning tabiati bu. Ularning psixologiyasini o'rganar ekanman, bunga ko'nikishga majburman.

Turmush qurishni manga taklif qilishganida "Yaxshisi, turmush o'rtog'ingizni shuyerga qo'shib qo'yarsiz-a..." degandim. Qo'pol eshitilar balki. Psixologiya sevgi uchun o'rganilmasligini tushunishlari osonroq bo'ladi.

Turmush o'rtoq tanlashda ruhiy salomatlik muhim.

Oilasida mehr ko'rmagan yoki oson dofaminli sevgiga uchgan qizlar bilan normal oila qurolmayman. Ular dunyoni noto'g'ri tasavvur qiladi. Kechagi qizlar buzulib ketmayapti maqolasi ham shu haqida edi. Bilaman, buzuq (qiz/yigit)lar ko'p, lekin san ulardan uzoq bo'lishing kerak. O'zingni ruhing shikastlanmasligi va ruhan nosog'lom (!) kishiga uchramasliging uchun.

Farazan, ota-onamning ham yoshlikda gaplari kelisholmay qolgandir lekin ular hech qachon bizning oldimizda ovozlarini ko'tarishmagan. Shuning uchun ham men va (opa/singil)larimning qarama-qarshi jinsga allergiyamiz yo'q. Ruhan sog'lom ota-onadan ruhan sog'lom bolalar dunyoga keladi deganlari shu bo'ladi.

Ikkinchi omilimiz ta'sirlanish indeksi.

Ayol eridan ta'sirlanishi muhim. Itoat qilishi osonroq bo'ladi. Kimdur san bilan turmush qurishga rozi bo'lsa, bil - u sani o'ziga o'rnak deb biladi va sanga ergashishni xohlaydi. Biz erkaklarda boshqaruv va ergashtirishga qobiliyat bor, baxtingga.

Aksincha, o'zingdan qoniqmasang va bir ayolni ergashtiradigan darajada g'oyalar tizimiga ega bo'lmaguncha turmush qurishni hayolingga keltirma. Ajrashib ketasizlar baribir. Axloqing va dunyoqarashing ustida ishla. O'zingga bergan va'dalaring ustida tur va ko'proq o'qigin. Dunyoning qanday ishlashini anglagin.

Uchinchisi, 96 % ayollar bir xil. O'ziga xoslik 4 % da.

Shahrimga qaytgan kunimoq do'stim Rustam bilan ko'rishdik. Chorsuda 4 soat (11:00-15:00) ilmiy suhbat qilibmiz. Xulosalardan biri - 96 % ayollar bir xil.

Turmush qurishda sehrli ayolni qidirma. Qanday bo'lishidan qat'iy nazar ko'nikib ketasan baribir. Axloqlisini tanlasang o'zingga osonroq bo'ladi.

Bilaman maqola uzayib ketdi. Buni hamma o'qishi kerakmas va ishoning, kerakli odam ko'z uzmasdan bittada o'qib qo'yadi. O'sha gap: oila haqida maqola yozsam - uylanmoqchi ekan deb o'ylashadi. Ayollarning tabiati bu. Ularning psixologiyasini o'rganar ekanman, bunga ko'nikishga majburman!

📚 "Sevgi algoritmi" kitobi

@Tahlil_sahifasi

Qizlar buzilib ketmayapti

- Bilasanmi, Alisher, hozirgi qizlar buzilib ketyapti...

- Ha, onam/opam shunaqa demoqchimisan?

- Nima?

- Onang 30-40 yil oldin hozirgi yoshda bo'lganlar. Kimdurning potensial onasini buzilib ketyapti deyapsan.

Bahsdan so'ng u tarmoqda kamroq o'tirishga qaror qildi.

Masalan, onam hozir qizlar buzilyapti demaydilar.
Kasblari axborot sohasiga aloqador bo'lganiga ilm-fan yo'nalishidagi ayollar murojaat qiladi.

Yana har yili ishxonalariga ish o'rganuvchi talabalar keladi. Ular mas'uliyatli, o'z ustida ishlagan va til bilishini maqtaydilar. Sohamiz ishonchli qo'llarda deb qo'yadilar.

Ichida mas'uliyatsiz va dangasalar bor, lekin filtr yaxshi bo'lgani uchun ishga qabul qilinmaydi - onam ularni ko'rmaydilar. Xulosalarimiz ko'rganlarimizdan iborat.

Qarabsizki, onam hozirgilar yaxshiroq degan fikrdalar.

Qizlar buzilib ketmayapti. Filtring xato ishlayapti.
Buzilganlarni haddan tashqari ko'p kuzatib yubording

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