On the same note, avoid any form of backbiting/gossiping because:
1) It’s haram and for a reason. You risk your own reputation by participating in a conversation whose subject would find offensive (even if you’re right).
2) It also makes your partner in the gossip start to like you less. They’ll be worried you’d do the same when they’re not around. This happens especially when you’re the one subtly forcing them to gossip with you.
3) There are a thousand more productive uses of your time most important of which is improving yourself (towards the point that you yourself don’t deserve to be backbitten :)
@abdullohnotes
1) It’s haram and for a reason. You risk your own reputation by participating in a conversation whose subject would find offensive (even if you’re right).
2) It also makes your partner in the gossip start to like you less. They’ll be worried you’d do the same when they’re not around. This happens especially when you’re the one subtly forcing them to gossip with you.
3) There are a thousand more productive uses of your time most important of which is improving yourself (towards the point that you yourself don’t deserve to be backbitten :)
@abdullohnotes