The best thing you can do for yourself is building your own life that is centered around only you. Well, there is always other people in our life, and we can never ignore their presence while living normal life. This is social life.
The concept of ‘own life’ is different and involves only your ideas, thoughts and probably hobbies. Not many people have this personal space and their life constantly evolve around other people’s business (which actually drains energy).
Building your own life is never easy, and you always feel like failing. (I feel like this everyday, actually). But this is part of the process, and you should never give up. Remember, the person you should invest the most energy in is yourself. 🎀