🔖 A serious appeal to parents whose children are studying abroad!
I would like to emphasize this because I witness this scene a lot in Japan and Korea. Dear parents, if you have sent your children to study abroad, do not ask your children to send large amounts of money until they get a bigger scholarship or, if not, until they graduate and get a job. Don't just demand, don't expect.
I have said before: our young students (!) studying abroad are not geese that lay golden eggs. The vast majority of them have to earn contract sums, work for their living and have some rest as students. However, parents and family members in our country do not understand this, and even if they do, they hope for money openly or secretly.
I wish my children would send more and more money: buy houses, weddings, and more cars. Even if the amount sent this month is a little less than last month, "Boy, is it a little less this time?" They don't even like to give a joke. Seeing the attitude of parents, brothers and sisters to the student who went on a journey in the path of knowledge, you want to say goodbye to our people's ignorance and lack of value for knowledge and science.
After all, our children have come to study abroad! The employer is not a guest worker! Well, let's say it worked. What will happen after that? Education remains on paper, there is no vocational training at work, because foreigners are stupid and do not give important vocational positions to ours. I learned this myself by talking to students. What will life be like in 7-8 years? What will be the next fate of this boy or girl? This is very interesting to me. With a very high probability, he can go to a business such as a taxi driver, a shopkeeper, if he is very lucky, a builder. However, because he did not study in a developed foreign country and did not learn the necessary profession, he will have difficulties in his later life. He cannot climb to the top.
In fact, a student is seen as a person who has the right to receive zakat. Yes, you can give him the zakat that is given to the poor. And our nation thinks of using the student as a DONKEY. We are in a hurry. After all, let's give it some time (3-4 years). Let him read a little and come to his senses. And after that, you will enjoy what he found for a lifetime. However, until then, we should wait patiently and, if possible, go abroad and help our young men and women who are studying in expensive universities and give them financial support.
Among students abroad, I see a lot of people who shoulder all the burden from a very early age and get old very quickly. The poor person has no right even to be sick. Because if he gets sick, his whole life will be ruined and his work will be difficult. This is not good for the youth of our nation. Studying, working and living with such great pressure can cause them serious psychological problems in the future.
Conclusion No. 1: Although I do not say all of them, most of the students are young men and women who call my home, my place, my parents. In that case, let's not compare ourselves to our neighbors who send their children to "study" abroad and receive a lot of money every month. Let's also know how to wait with great patience until our child finishes his education, gets a well-paid job, and receives money. Instead, do not accept old age quickly, continue to work as a parent, earn money. This will keep your body healthy and you will not age quickly.
Conclusion No. 2: Our students, like other young men and women around them, should not rush and send money to their families, but first of all, they should think about their first goal - to enjoy their studies.
#reallife #experience
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I would like to emphasize this because I witness this scene a lot in Japan and Korea. Dear parents, if you have sent your children to study abroad, do not ask your children to send large amounts of money until they get a bigger scholarship or, if not, until they graduate and get a job. Don't just demand, don't expect.
I have said before: our young students (!) studying abroad are not geese that lay golden eggs. The vast majority of them have to earn contract sums, work for their living and have some rest as students. However, parents and family members in our country do not understand this, and even if they do, they hope for money openly or secretly.
I wish my children would send more and more money: buy houses, weddings, and more cars. Even if the amount sent this month is a little less than last month, "Boy, is it a little less this time?" They don't even like to give a joke. Seeing the attitude of parents, brothers and sisters to the student who went on a journey in the path of knowledge, you want to say goodbye to our people's ignorance and lack of value for knowledge and science.
After all, our children have come to study abroad! The employer is not a guest worker! Well, let's say it worked. What will happen after that? Education remains on paper, there is no vocational training at work, because foreigners are stupid and do not give important vocational positions to ours. I learned this myself by talking to students. What will life be like in 7-8 years? What will be the next fate of this boy or girl? This is very interesting to me. With a very high probability, he can go to a business such as a taxi driver, a shopkeeper, if he is very lucky, a builder. However, because he did not study in a developed foreign country and did not learn the necessary profession, he will have difficulties in his later life. He cannot climb to the top.
In fact, a student is seen as a person who has the right to receive zakat. Yes, you can give him the zakat that is given to the poor. And our nation thinks of using the student as a DONKEY. We are in a hurry. After all, let's give it some time (3-4 years). Let him read a little and come to his senses. And after that, you will enjoy what he found for a lifetime. However, until then, we should wait patiently and, if possible, go abroad and help our young men and women who are studying in expensive universities and give them financial support.
Among students abroad, I see a lot of people who shoulder all the burden from a very early age and get old very quickly. The poor person has no right even to be sick. Because if he gets sick, his whole life will be ruined and his work will be difficult. This is not good for the youth of our nation. Studying, working and living with such great pressure can cause them serious psychological problems in the future.
Conclusion No. 1: Although I do not say all of them, most of the students are young men and women who call my home, my place, my parents. In that case, let's not compare ourselves to our neighbors who send their children to "study" abroad and receive a lot of money every month. Let's also know how to wait with great patience until our child finishes his education, gets a well-paid job, and receives money. Instead, do not accept old age quickly, continue to work as a parent, earn money. This will keep your body healthy and you will not age quickly.
Conclusion No. 2: Our students, like other young men and women around them, should not rush and send money to their families, but first of all, they should think about their first goal - to enjoy their studies.
#reallife #experience
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✍️ Dm: @ton_adres
✔️ @fulltuition