bu holat manga norm. otam hurmat qilib onamni ham, bizani ham sizlab murojaat qiladilar. ba’zan manga sanlab turadilar.
va o’zim ham farzandlarim va ayolimga shunaqa sizlab muomula qilaman deb ishonaman. va buni chiroyli deb hisoblayman.
shaxsan mani oilamda, hecham begonadek emas, ota onamni munosabatlari judayam judayam chiroyli, havas qilsa arzigulik, qancha birga yashab kelishvotgan bo’sa otammi tillaridan onamga nisbatan bir marttayam “san” digan gap eshtmaganman. hattoki jaxllari chiqganda ham. va biza bilanam judayam yaqin munosabatdalar. otam bilan istalgan mavzuda gaplashishdan hecham tortinmayman.
ps. biza qoqonlimasmiz, toshkenlimiza.
va sizlash rostan ham chiroyli ma’daniyat chegarasini qura oladi, va siz jahlingiz chiqganda u insonga nisbatan hoxlagan gapizni gapirib tasholmisiz agar sizlasez, e’tibor berganmisiz?)
jahl hammamizda bor. ammo Umar roziyallohu anhu aytganlaridek, “Eng kuchli inson, jahli chiqganda tilini boshqara olgan insondir.”
"The strong man is not the one who can overpower others, but the strong man is the one who can control himself in a fit of rage."
— (Sahih al-Bukhari, 6114; Sahih Muslim, 2609)
Rahmat savolingiz uchun. Sog’ bo’ling!✨