У тебя новый анонимный вопрос:
What do you think about jealousy? In life and in relationships. For example in life, being jealous of someone ‘s achievements. And jealousy in marriage — what is the limit in your opinion?
When it comes to achievements one, in my opinion, should never be jealous. I suggest you not to compare yourself with those above you but make yourself grateful by looking at those below you because it could have been much worse. I think if you keep comparing yourself with those who are better than you, it will eventually make you very negative and depressed person. Be grateful for what you have and have achieved so far, and do not be proud when comparing yourself to those who have achieved less than you and do not jealous of those who achieved more than you. I am not saying you should not strive for perfection, I just want to say that it is not good to compare yourself with those better than you but rather their achievements should inspire you to do better and not sit and moan about how miserable your life is and how come they are so lucky to have achieved what they have achieved.
When it comes to relationship, I think there should be certain degree of healthy jealousy. Not to the point when you lock your wife in house but rather more like loving jealousy. Like maybe you want her to spend more time with you discussing the book you read or like being more modest in her outfit. Overall, simple logical stuff loving wife would do. I think open dialogue can help resolve any misunderstandings you may encounter. I think if you will treat your wife very well then there should not be any problem with jealousy or trust issues because rational wife would understand that nobody else will be able to care for her and treat her like you do and worst case scenario if you catch it, the repetitive negative case that you clearly outlined you do not like, then it is time say goodbyes and she probably lost the gem.
What do you think about jealousy? In life and in relationships. For example in life, being jealous of someone ‘s achievements. And jealousy in marriage — what is the limit in your opinion?
When it comes to achievements one, in my opinion, should never be jealous. I suggest you not to compare yourself with those above you but make yourself grateful by looking at those below you because it could have been much worse. I think if you keep comparing yourself with those who are better than you, it will eventually make you very negative and depressed person. Be grateful for what you have and have achieved so far, and do not be proud when comparing yourself to those who have achieved less than you and do not jealous of those who achieved more than you. I am not saying you should not strive for perfection, I just want to say that it is not good to compare yourself with those better than you but rather their achievements should inspire you to do better and not sit and moan about how miserable your life is and how come they are so lucky to have achieved what they have achieved.
When it comes to relationship, I think there should be certain degree of healthy jealousy. Not to the point when you lock your wife in house but rather more like loving jealousy. Like maybe you want her to spend more time with you discussing the book you read or like being more modest in her outfit. Overall, simple logical stuff loving wife would do. I think open dialogue can help resolve any misunderstandings you may encounter. I think if you will treat your wife very well then there should not be any problem with jealousy or trust issues because rational wife would understand that nobody else will be able to care for her and treat her like you do and worst case scenario if you catch it, the repetitive negative case that you clearly outlined you do not like, then it is time say goodbyes and she probably lost the gem.